Well, come back to me when yours is the "nation without the country" :) Given your imperialistic past (as far as I understand, your country in Britain?), it's hard for you to imagine what it's like. And given your imperialistic heritage, I can understand why you believe in the "stability after russia wins:" you look from the side of occupiers and those who made other countries their colonies, not from those whom you invaded and occupied.
I see that you believe rus side: All this "organizing Bucha," "rus avoid civilian casualities," "stability like in soviet times" - whaaat? (again, it's a point of an occupier: sure, it was a stability in soviet times, for those who ruled there, not for people of 10+ captured countries forced to become "ussr"), etc., which is total, cinical lie; so I have nothing more to tell you. all the best.